"Relationship Killers: Insecurity, Trust Issues, Facebook, Twitter, Jealousy, Lack Of Communication, Assumptions, HOES"
Insecurity- is a killer because it shows the world that you don't trust yourself. If you do not trust, accept, love, you how can another? There is a difference between being uncertain and being insecure. People (but really to my other ladies) no man or woman wants to hear how you think your ugly often and yes often is once a day or even once a week in your words or actions. Who wants to be with a person that is subject to fear, lacks self confidence, who is exposed and liable to risk loss or danger, not firmly or reliable placed... I don't!
Trust issues- Unpack your suitcase before you being another journey. Trust is a 2 way street. Learn to be trust worthy and then you can trust.
Facebook- Is not your diary, Not a fantasy world and is not for you to destroy your life over. If a thing cause you great pain and you don't like it why do it? Facebook is not to air all your personal business and secrets and then tell others to mind they business... Um we are you are on the news feed lol. It is a social site and it is not private. PLEASE remember that! Writer with caution
Twitter- Ditto above.
Jealousy- Has no place in any relationship you hope to cultivate. Period. First because in a loving committed relationship no one should be rivals.. I should not feel guarded, have a suspicion or fear, and I should not be upset over another person successes..
Lack of Communication- Facebook and Twitter, blogs, social media sites, are not and should not be your main form of communication in your relationships. Communication is not yelling, cursing, demanding, threatening, verbal abuse, verbal black mail, silence, a cold shoulder.
Assumptions- The 4 Agreements say it far better then I ever could
' Don’t Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life." don Miguel Ruiz
Insecurity- is a killer because it shows the world that you don't trust yourself. If you do not trust, accept, love, you how can another? There is a difference between being uncertain and being insecure. People (but really to my other ladies) no man or woman wants to hear how you think your ugly often and yes often is once a day or even once a week in your words or actions. Who wants to be with a person that is subject to fear, lacks self confidence, who is exposed and liable to risk loss or danger, not firmly or reliable placed... I don't!
Trust issues- Unpack your suitcase before you being another journey. Trust is a 2 way street. Learn to be trust worthy and then you can trust.
Facebook- Is not your diary, Not a fantasy world and is not for you to destroy your life over. If a thing cause you great pain and you don't like it why do it? Facebook is not to air all your personal business and secrets and then tell others to mind they business... Um we are you are on the news feed lol. It is a social site and it is not private. PLEASE remember that! Writer with caution
Twitter- Ditto above.
Jealousy- Has no place in any relationship you hope to cultivate. Period. First because in a loving committed relationship no one should be rivals.. I should not feel guarded, have a suspicion or fear, and I should not be upset over another person successes..
Lack of Communication- Facebook and Twitter, blogs, social media sites, are not and should not be your main form of communication in your relationships. Communication is not yelling, cursing, demanding, threatening, verbal abuse, verbal black mail, silence, a cold shoulder.
Assumptions- The 4 Agreements say it far better then I ever could
' Don’t Make Assumptions
Find the courage to ask questions and to express what you really want. Communicate with others as clearly as you can to avoid misunderstandings, sadness and drama. With just this one agreement, you can completely transform your life." don Miguel Ruiz
And I will add the last one. learn to hear and listen.. We want to be listened to and heard practice and you will become a master.
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